THE BRIDGE

8/7/2025

Is judgment or joy the engine of your life?

Chances are, it’s a combination of both.

By judgment I mean a reality that assigns good/bad, right/wrong, positive/negative to everything and everyone. Judgment reality is rooted in shame and is the antithesis of who you are.

By joy, I mean the free-flow of the light that is YOU … no resistance to your BEAUTY … the energy that is YOU. Joy reality is rooted in truth and is the essence of who you are.

To be fully living in a judgment-fueled reality is complete hell. To be fully living in a joy-fueled reality is complete heaven.

The great news is that there is a bridge called FACING YOUR SELF that gets us from the false experience of judgment to the true experience of joy.

Along the bridge from judgment to joy you will encounter much.

You will be required to feel feelings you don’t want to feel. Think thoughts you don’t want to think. Not to get stuck in those feelings or ruminate forever on those thoughts, but to allow them the space to be, if just for that moment.

These are not conjured up feelings and thoughts. They are feelings and thoughts that the judgment fueled reality represses within our bodies.

At first it will be uncomfortable, painful, even. The bridge is no joke. There are no crossing guards. Make no mistake, this journey is between You & You.

This is the acknowledgement. This is the Facing of Self. If you attempt to cross the bridge without doing so, you will be sent back.

Many feign facing their Self with activity, drama and much to-do. This definitely keeps one occupied, but without facing your Self, you have only just tucked shame in bed for the night. You cannot completely pass GO until you change the engine that runs your life.

You may find what I am sharing to be a fantasy or harsh. As I promised from the first Blissing, I am sharing from my heart and soul my experiences with the words that are most true in the moment.

Changing the engine takes intention. It begs the question, what do I want? It can be a mind-bender because maybe we are okay with the life we are living, happy even.

When I first became conscious of my shift from judgment to joy, I felt bad about it. From conventional accounts, my life was amazing… Except for the dull ache in my being that only grew the moment I became aware of it.

But if something, perhaps the smallest little crack of light, is speaking to you, know that there is more. And even if it seems illogical and you don’t know what to do or how to do it, it is okay. Your WANT is your WILL.

The light that is YOU moves mountains. Hell, you are the mountain.

xoxoxo