UNCONDITIONAL

May 14, 2026

Today’s Blissing came to me earlier this week on Monday. I was in traffic. Standstill. I picked up my phone and made notes as the words poured out of me. Here it is with no edits, except spacing.

Unconditional does not mean I will sacrifice my life force for you. Quite the opposite.

Unconditional means that I am so grounded in the Love that I am that I can only be Love for you. I don’t have an option to be anything else.

But being the love that I am means that I contain my life force at all times. The breath of my life is mine.

And I did do this. I did live that way for a very, very long time, especially with my kids, but with everybody. Including my husband.

It was, let me slit my wrists so that you may drink my blood. And by the way, blood is symbolic of joy. Let me empty my body of joy so that you may have my joy. That is how I was living unbeknownst to me.

I am not angry. I am clear. Clarity is my power. Clarity is my truth. Clarity is the love that I am. Clarity is Unconditional.

Unconditional is not meek or passive or wimpy or soft. Unconditional is my fire. It is fiery. It is so.

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After I experienced this gloriousness I got home and proceeded to have an experience that said: Oh, so you’re Unconditional? Show me. Because this is how it works.

My Blissing was a Command I was making on my own life. And to cement it, I had and have to WALK THROUGH the extreme discomfort, emotional and physical, of making it so.

I will not go into details of what happened. But this is how it works. This is how I’m learning to CREATE my life. One moment of presence at a time.

I will also say, after rereading the above, that Unconditional can be soft. Not soft as in push over, but soft as in there is no push/pull. Soft, while at the same time, so, so solid.